Happy Valentine’s Day

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In the 2010 movie Valentine’s Day couples deal with the pressures and expectations of Valentine’s Day.

Can Cupid finish his work by midnight?

For you, the happily engaged, Cupid has already done his work. You’re in the throws of planning the greatest celebration of your Lives. The pressures and expectations of this planning crop up all the time.

What you want, is what you want, when you want it. How we see this at ChicagoWeddingDJs is: “What can we do to make your entertainment shopping, choosing, planning, and creating process as easy (and as fun) as possible.

Let’s look at Valentine’s Day. Does he get you a gift? Will she give you a card? A poem, nice dinner, flowers, chocolate, leisure/lounge wear?

If it’s a dinner out, you’ve got to make plans. Research the restaurant, or call your favorite and make sure there’s a reservation. If it’s the work week, we’ve got to get out of work, run home get ready, or run straight to the restaurant and switch into lovey-dovey mode.

But here’s the thing. You’re planning a wedding, you’re excited, you’re thrilled about being with each other. On top of all the pressure and expectations of your everyday life there are the pressures of planning the wedding.

And in Life, anytime you set your mind on something you have a focus about it. In every task you do focus on excellence and not just Passing. Don’t focus on perfection (Stop chasing perfection and settle for excellence).

Because when you focus on excellence your chances of acheiving it are better than when you focus on just OK average mediocre. You know there’s someting better in Life.

That’s why you fell in love, that’s why Cupid’s arrow struck and why you are giving this gift, and sharing the joy, of your love with the world.

One Response

  1. Wedding Invitations February 27, 2012, 10:21 am

    Great points…I think so many couples over-stress about Valentine’s Day when they are engaged for a number of reasons…they could feel that how they handle this day will set a president for future years, or maybe they feel that as an engaged couple they are supposed to be more romantic at this time than any other in their lives. No matter what, it’s important to remember why you are together and focus on being happy as a couple instead of following expectations of those not in your relationship.

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