Some tongue in cheek, but here’s the truth
Prove your utter devotion to the bride. Really this is as much about everyone on the guest list as it is about the bridal party. When people “show up” for a celebration, magic happens. So for bridesmaids and groomsmen alike, it helps if you Be There.
Never attend a dress fitting on an empty stomach. Well not really, but when you do go out together having a snack, a cup of coffee, a sip of wine that the designer might offer is part of that. it’s these little memories you’ll have for the rest of your life.
Vegas is the only acceptable place for a bachelorette party. Ok so in the movies it’s got to be Vegas to get crazy levels up above Insane. You don’t have to. It makes all the difference, though, once again to show up and come up with something special. Again memories for a long time.
Ignore your own man troubles. Well yes, you don’t want your current relationship challenge to dim the bright light of the special couples day. Instead, the cup is half full, and you see your own good fortune coming to you at some future date.
Here’s what the movies say:
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