The big day is getting nearer. And you need some ideas. Here are 4 Essential Groom Wedding Day Tips to help you be the man and shine as the best groom ever.
4 Essential Groom Wedding Day Tips
You’ve got a thousand things you’re thinking about. It’s crazy, I know. There’s a lot on your shoulders right now. We can help. Here are a few things you’ll want to focus on. And a few things to avoid. As you plan for one of the biggest days of your life.
1. YES, document everything.
This is not about making note of every receipt from the wedding. This is about capturing every moment possible. You’ll want to look back on it. Because it’s easy these days with everyone posting to social media and all the online connection.
Get that handled then be your own emotional, human camera. Capture every feeling you have and channel into the loving, celebrating, grateful groom you are.
2. NO, unhappy bride.
Once you’ve taken care of everything in #1. You’ve taken care of yourself. It’s time to take care of others. Keep your bride happy.
This doesn’t mean you have to be a pushover. But you do want to be AVAILABLE to any and all emergencies and whims that might pop up.
This MIGHT mean taking action. But often it’s just listening and being present. You got this.
3. YES, you can delegate.
#2 was about getting into the thick of things. But this one is knowing when to hand it off. You could hand it off to an eager and willing team member. Or you could rely on a professional to do this.
Either way, when your bride is concerned or freaking out about something, You can say: “Don’t worry.” with confidence, “I got a guy!’
4. NO late night the day before.
You have got to get your rest. You might even be getting up early the next morning to workout, get a run in, or get get in a round of golf with the guys. Whatever you do, don’t plan your bachelor party for the night before.
I’m seeing most couples have their bachelor/bachelorette parties across a weekend far in advance of the date.
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